The question of reality and its essence has been a part of my daily thought process even from my earliest memories as a child. I remember falling head-over-heels in love with the night sky, instantaneously rapt with the most overwhelming reverence; slipping into a trance-like state as my eyes devoured each and every cosmic sight before me, mesmerized and spellbound by the vast silence of these tangibly intangible beams of light connecting my own tiny mortal existence to their own infinite nature. I reveled in the majesty of these moments. They were purity; beauty; magic. I can still step right inside the memories as if they happened yesterday. Camping in the middle of nowhere, lying on the edge of a mysterious and omnipotent body of water, alive with the electrical currents of imagination and wonder pulsing through my veins. I was wildly perplexed by God, and His infinity. It was a place with no “edges” whatsoever; no ends, no real corners, no ceilings or bottoms or fronts or backs or sides and not even a center. No ins or outs or reference points; just everything, everywhere, forever stretching itself into its own abyss. I was consumed by a bitter-sweet sadness and an incomprehensible awe just thinking about all of the unknowable mysteries that would forever be so far away from where I was. My desire was ferocious. I longed desperately to see every single star up close and personal, to dance in all of their glorious light alongside all of the other endless celestial bodies floating rhythmically through space and time.

I’ve always found such unspeakable depth and meaningfulness in these questions:

If there are stars infinitely far away from me, in some eternal and unexplorable part of the universe, are they absolutely, physically real? Or are they only real hypothetically? These random kind of curiosities flooded my thinking nonstop. They still do.

And then there are the more common circle-jerks:

If a tree falls in the woods but no one is around to hear it, does it actually make a sound?

Which came first, the chicken or the egg?

Most people shrug their shoulders, offer “conundrum” as a satisfactory answer, and move about their business.

I hear these questions and my soul vibrates with excitement. Literally. Much like an electric wire hanging above your house; my synapses take off in a sudden stampede and I’m transformed into sheer voltage, dangerously alive within the intellectual stimulation of it all.

I’ve unintentionally devoted most of my life to exploring which kind of answers are actually relevant, researching my ‘brains out’ in search of some historically documented suggestion of philosophical truth that actually registered within my heart without creating deeper questions. I wound up less certain and more perplexed than I was at the start. My academic journeys in college at the sophomore level all began with every single one of my philosophy professors prefacing their commitment to my education with the same disclaimer: “If you’re looking for answers, philosophy isn’t for you. There’s a legitimate reason all the same questions are still being asked. Get out now while you still have a chance.” My professors on the junior and senior level began their semesters much the same way, but ironically presented a new enigmatic dilemma: “If you’re STILL a philosophy major, and you aren’t independently wealthy or clinically mentally ill, you haven’t got much common sense. People don’t get paid to sit around and think all day. Unless you plan to teach it. And if you actually hope to do what I do, you’d better have some answers because the questions are centuries old now and there’s no new way of asking them. Don’t waste your time, or anyone else’s.”



But just like the seven remaining colleagues of mine still majoring in Philosophy at the near end of our undergraduate experience, I was doomed from the start. I had no other option, honestly. I took a sophomore year professor’s advice and became a pre-med student for one full semester. Surprisingly, medicine seemed to come fairly naturally to me. I loved learning about anatomy and physiology, nutrition, biology, physics, chemistry, etc. Science struck a chord in my soul as beautifully as spirituality. But I could never escape the growing sensation that I would soon become a caterpillar whose cocoon had been stripped off. My soul felt stagnant. No matter how much information I crammed into the dusty recesses of my brain, I had no sincere and lasting desire to utilize it in the real world. I felt like a chef with no spoon. A mother with no womb. Nostalgia was taking root in my spirit as if I had gone through some terrible kind of break up. I had to return to the place I belonged.

My birth was the beginning of my own personal quest for the “Origin of Species” …on a metaphysical level. I couldn’t help myself. I was born to trump Darwin. I popped out of my mother’s belly talking to myself, debating the unanswerable curiosities in space, time, and the very nature of “being.” Ask her. She’ll tell you. I drove her half-mad with my insanely boring and endless thoughts about anything and everything. All the time. And my passionate love of the words I would discover to express these constant streams of consciousness were enough to force her eyes into a permanently crossed and rolled position. I distinctly remember the first time she read one of my poems… It wasn’t a joyful experience. Mind you, I was eleven years old with a sudden fascination with thinness and starvation, a lonely little bookworm with too many questions for her feigned interest to allow, and the poem was quite ridiculous in nature. Having never been exposed to real-life bottom-level poverty, and having only my imagination to go on, I spontaneously undertook the grand task of writing a poem from a homeless and terminally ill war veteran’s point of view. I cringe even now, just thinking about it. I will never forget its painful, almost violent awkwardness. For what I lacked in poise, I definitely made up for in imagination. (Clears throat.) And yes, it was truly that bad.

Anyway, Mom couldn’t take it anymore. My Grammy was trying to brag about this Nonsense Sonnet because she was floored by the nature of the content. She remained masterfully composed about its most atrocious form and delivery (God bless her). She insisted to my mother, “Will you just read it already? It’s important that you nurture this creative ability in your daughter. Even if it irritates you, she needs to be encouraged. She’s only in sixth grade! She has a gift. (…uh…) And every talent must be practiced. She must be motivated and inspired to develop her skill.” My mom snatched that spiral notebook right out of her hands and without even taking a breath said, “Are you kidding me? Did you actually READ this? It’s the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever heard in my life. She is ELEVEN YEARS OLD, MOM. What child writes poems about dying bums on the street in SIXTH GRADE? I can’t pretend her sudden interest in darkness and despair is talent. What does she even know about that stuff, seriously? She’s never been on the street and she hasn’t even seen an actual homeless person in her entire life, and if you think she needs positive reinforcement, fine. YOU give it to her. Just leave me out of it. It’s weird.”

I love my mom. This is the same woman who reacted to my decision to attend an Ivy League University (without scholarships or grants or savings of any kind) with, “Have you completely lost your mind? What do you plan to major in?” (…silence…) …”Uhmmm… Well, I’m actually double majoring…” Suddenly I understood what “deafening silence” meant. Her voice grew shrill. “You’re joking, right? We’re past April Fool’s Day Brandy. Please tell me it’s Business or Law, or something that will actually get you out of debt before you plan to retire.” (…crickets chirping…) “No mom. It’s …um… Psychology. And… Flosfy…” I was cornered. No way out of it now. “WHAT DID YOU JUST SAY?,” she says, her teeth clenched down like a sudden case of lock-jaw. I couldn’t run from it. “Philosophy, mom. Psychology and Philosophy. And yes, I know you think it’s stupid and I know you won’t understand but this is what is right for me.”

It took my mom almost a year to get over it. Disbelief, complete lack of faith in my plan, and an honest sadness for what she thought was my lack of better judgement. She found her own way to some form of peace (I wouldn’t call it acceptance, but it was at least better than the former.)

Now we skip ahead five fruitless years or so from my university studies. And into my world walks Quantum Physics, exploding before me with light-speed and sonic-sound, romancing my innermost soul, setting my ideas in a PURPOSEFUL motion. For the first time, I was completely set free from those once harrowing and circular thought processes. Those classic philosophic questions only presented more questions with questions for answers, wrapping themselves tightly around and around and around each other as if stamping out the infinity symbol itself, over and over and over, back and forth, in and out, with quickening velocity in the very opposite direction of the truth — and its inherent answers — of which I had spent my curious life pursuing. Well, that trivial and all-consuming pursuit wasn’t in vain after all. My mom was justified to feel disappointed and concerned. I won’t deny that. But it feels quite vindicating to discover resolution for all of those years, all of those questions, all of those incomprehensible student loans and 20 credit-hour semesters while working a full time job, all of those massive elephants in the room every time I mentioned what exactly I planned to do with my life… (For clarification, refer back to the title of this post.)

Suffice it to say, I am confident that every one of those brilliant professors possessed some certain variation and degree of lunacy. I find encouragement and remorse resting in equal proportion at the center of this epiphany.

(Note: If you aren’t much of a philosopher and your eyes haven’t glazed over by now, congratulations. You are hereby endowed with the Honorary Conundrum Award. Quite the achievement! Way to go.)

It’s hard to pay attention to mindless semantics, unless your mind is like mine. Not mindless, really. I see it as mind-more-ful of the universe and all of its mystery, and how that mystery manifests itself even on the microscopic levels of life, energy, motion, space, and time. It’s a brain perfectly plagued with fascination of relativity, cellular functions, intellectual synapses, spiritual implications, frequencies, hypotheticals, energy fields, anatomic processes, dimensions, physics, and all of the other things most people seldom apply to their daily mentality, and yet implicitly could not exist without. Irony, doubled over.

Quantum physics is my heartbeat. It’s yours too. You probably just don’t know it. It quite simply brings science and religion face to face, and proves that, well… They’re both wrong. And they’re also both right. They are not what we have always been taught they were, the classic argument of “evolution versus creation”. If you took quantum physics and broke it down, and then took several long and strange tangents, you would find religion deep down on one end, and science on another. In a world without the greater truth of quantum physics, science and religion are forced to mimic each other’s complete absurdity like a child taunting a lion in a cage at the zoo. Nanny-nanny-boo-boo, you can’t get me.

Oh yes, I can. Both win. Both lose.

Quantum physics is to science what God is to religion. Unknowable. Unfathomable. Seemingly synonymous, but in reality (ha) the two are truthfully diabolically opposed.

Science and religion are built on unanswered variables, and unanswered prayers, and neither possesses any room for the possibility of a greater truth (and by truth here I mean valid, factual evidence and explanation of the greater simplicities of our existence). πŸ˜‰ But if everybody would just simmer down and chill out and listen to what’s happening on a MOLECULAR LEVEL, we would all quickly realize the truths of our universe on a MACRO level.

The universe is best understood by the molecules that combine to form the particles of matter within it.

Science and religion both run from that. Disagree all you want, but I hold it to be self-evident. Seriously. Religion scampers off into the woods to hide from any discussion about cell composition, periodic elements, and how our very own bodies are made of the very same stuff as those beautiful stars in our sky. It scares religion because it pushes boundaries. And even greater, it asks questions that religion isn’t suited — or maybe willing — to answer.

Science is a dog with its tail between its legs, the moment anybody tries to address the fact that we have discovered the existence of thirteen dimensions in space and time (the universe isn’t 3D, and it’s not 4D either), and there is SCIENTIFIC EVIDENCE of an OBSERVABLE IMPACT words and thoughts have over reality, specifically evident in the cellular structure of a molecule (see link below regarding Dr. Emoto’s water molecule photography and the irrefutable effect thoughts have over the water molecule’s structure. Fair warning: be prepared with an extra pair of under-britches before you click the link. This stuff is so mind-blowing you will literally pee your pants).

Science cannot accept what it cannot define. It seeks out boundaries and laws, just like religion, to cling to when the winds of possibility and supernatural phenomenon rush in on top of them.

The quantum function of life is so incredibly simple, and yet so incredibly complex. It is the touchΓ©, pussycat, in the face of those cowardly lions. It knocks our socks off and turns our brains on and nobody is really prepared to feel its magnitude, or its momentum. Unless (like me) you’ve spent every moment of your meager existence climbing the walls of accepted scientific and spiritual truth so that you could truly find your way out of the lies and voyage into the truths that these two fields somehow seem to avoid… People like me exist in a perpetual frequency of excitement. Complete eagerness and WOW-type emotion, because this stuff is real. It isn’t hypothetical; it’s tangible and test-able and prove-able… And it simply MAKES SENSE.

It’s controversial for basic reasons. Primarily, it reveals every single last weakness in every single last hypothesis we have built our collective consciousness around. It presents even deeper ways of interpreting reality, ways that humankind has never indulged within the scope of intellectual and spiritual pursuit.

If you’ve never been exposed to quantum physics and you’re not quite sure what on earth I’m talking about, it’s not as complicated as rocket science and it’s actually much easier to comprehend than any other scientific field of study. In a very brief summation, it is the study of how PERCEPTION creates REALITY. And if you think that sounds like a bunch of nonsense, I urge you to watch the independent film “What the Bleep Do We Know?!”

…It will completely change your life.

As a mother and a woman madly in love with Jesus Christ, an old soul and an open mind and an overly-intellectual but free-spirited thinker, I know like I know like I know that there is a reason you read this post today. My ideas of what those reasons are might differ greatly from what the reasons mean to you, but I’m glad you rode the brainwave with me. Now follow wherever it leads you.


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17 responses »

  1. Loved your introduction and the stories as a child. I do not believe I came from a monkey or an ape. Loved the description of your Mom reading the poem. Wonderful active voice writing. As you know, I have discussed the philosophical issues at length on my site. Your childhood sounds interesting and fun. Wouldn’t mind reading more about that…6th grade writing about the homeless, that’s pretty amazing and interesting.

    • Thank you for the thoughtful feedback. I appreciate every thing you’ve said.

      As for my childhood, rest assured I will be diving into that. In fact, it was the initial motivation for the creation of this blog; I am writing a book in first person from my adolescent perspective… I was raised lower-middle class by two dynamically different human beings — my dad, a hopeless genius (literally) with an inability to integrate into society; he was an agoraphobic entrepreneur with a reckless passion for partying and discussing physics and God at four o’clock in the morning with his six-year old daughter on a school night, routinely skipping work to take me fishing for a couple of days regardless of which day of the week it was, teaching me how to bait a hook and clean a fish and shoot a shotgun at age four… My mom, a workaholic with a raging sorrow for my dad’s Irresponsibility Disorder (and a resentment for how it provided him the luxury of freedom to do anything he pleased); an incredibly intelligent woman marked by the scars of sadness that her sacrifices inflicted on her spirit. I cannot remember one single weekend which didn’t involve illegal fireworks, police, powerful discussions of the universe, or one of our many pitbulls attacking each other or a neighborhood pet.

      I’m thankful for the intensity of it. I grew up to become the best of each of them; hardworking, sensitive to things of the spirit, and helplessly alive in a perpetual state of profound thinking.

  2. I am glad you followed your passion against what was expected of you. That seems to be a big thing for many people to face, and many people do not face it.
    I love this post and the strength of your passion that it portrays very well! Inspiring!

    • I appreciate your comment. Megatons. (That’s a lot, by the way. A lot times seven plus fifty times nine.)

      Your phrase “the strength of (my) passion” is a perfect summation of the many ironies within this story. Passion is so rarely seen as a strength until it produces some specific, measurable achievement. My passionate love of the universe has provided me with the most perfectly beautiful solitude for most of my life. It throws people off their white picket fence, asks questions they are uncomfortable being asked, and removes all those fancy preconceived notions that so many of us humanfolk have built our perception of reality around. It rocks the boat.
      As for measuring passion in values of strong, moderate, or weak, I suppose my passionate nature has re-established a new standard of measurement: disinterested, ambivalent, or yep-she’s-gone-off-the-deep-end. I exaggerate, but… Well, maybe I don’t.
      πŸ™‚ Thanks so much for reading, and even more for responding.

  3. I watched the documentary; “What the Bleep do we know?”, and it is pretty awesome! I noticed that there is some reaching in it and that there are some marketing motives as well, so I forced myself to view it objectively even though it is a subject I agree with. There is some confusion for many people after watching it because they expect it to be science, and it is not science as we have defined it. Science is a level of concrete understanding where the answer is always predictable. Things of greater understandings are not “this or that”.
    It was said that the husband of the spiritual woman had H.I.V. and she told him not to get treatment from doctors and that she could heal him. He ended up dying. This fact led many to debunk the entire documentary and continue on with their prescribed meds without question, which is a fallacy. Life is not a guarantee, and people want to embrace the illusion that it can be. Here is a good example of how something can be true and false at the same time. I can do a kick flip on a skateboard. If you ask me to prove it to you, I may need a couple tries. It is true that I can and it is true that I can’t, according to observation, and the degrees of truth change with my ability to do the kick flip every time. The fact that I can do a kick flip does not mean you can as well. There is a relatively new math theory called “Fuzzy Math” that uses degrees of truth and it works with more than just numbers of course. My girlfriend hipped me to it recently and I feel like it is absolutely amazing! I use its principles for analyzing pretty much anything, because it doesn’t have to be true or false. It is just a question of how true. They use fuzzy math for robotics and algorithms etc.
    So, my thoughts in the end about the documentary is that we are scraping the surface of something very new and not well understood. It is the early communications of this forward progress. That is the story of our existence anyway and we will evolve as our understanding does. Much of it goes along with the law of attraction and the only reason I believe in that is because of my own application of it. It works for me!
    Have you ever seen the spirit science movies? They are the beginning communications of the merger of science and spirituality in a very broad and relatively accurate view. Just more to add to the consideration box of our mind!

    • Thanks for the thoughtful, candid feedback. My son came down with MRSA so my delay is unintentional and not typical of how things usually flow on my end (for future reference; I promise I won’t wait thirty-seven days before responding). πŸ˜‰

      As for your objective take on the film, good for you. That’s healthy, and instrumental to living life with awareness that flows freely in the correct direction for your own inner (spiritual) navigation through this life.

      I too recognized the marketing ploys, as with anything else in this life; politics, news broadcasts, religious indoctrination, educational indoctrination, and basically everything else. That objective point of view will carry you into uncharted territories if you let it, in a way that naievity will prevent your soul from growing.

      Science as we have “understood it” is hardly science at all. We are terrified of having our comfort zone threatened. I’m sure humanity struggled with the preposterous suggestion that the earth had no edges when Christopher Columbus conned the government into funding his fanciful quest for proving the earth was a big circle and not a big flat ledge (or was he sailing to find new land and claim it as his own? I digress…)

      Science has had PLENTY of moments when it had to fold its hand and accept the fact that it knew very little about what it claimed to. If you aren’t sure what I’m talking about, ask Stephen Hawking. Or look up String Theory. I know you’ll totally dig it.

      String theory is science too. I wasn’t knocking science. My soul is science perpetually breeding itself; procreating; producing new generation after new generation of a better adapted species of science. Natural selection occurs every day. We evolve every day. And yet we are always perfectly exactly who we are. Just like science. It is what it is, BUT IT’S ALSO WHAT IT ISN’T. It just doesn’t know that yet.

      I’m chasing my brain around the parameters of my house and my sanity trying to stay on top of this nasty MRSA stuff, but as soon as I can I will totally look deeper into “fuzzy mathematics…”

      And good for your girlfriend! Smart chicks are the hottest πŸ˜‰ Like the Cake song, I want a girl with a short skirt and a looooong… jacket.
      In my next lifetime I’d like to meet the two of you at some perfectly random hole-in-the-wall coffee shop and do life with you for thirty-three minutes each week.

      • Maybe science will be called “understanding” one day! I think that would be more fitting. I have heard briefly of string theory, so I will have to look further into it since you mentioned it!
        Best intentions to your son. My roommate had that before and he always tells me to let the doc know about it, if I ever have to take him to the hospital.
        “It is what it is, but it’s also what it isn’t. It just doesn’t know that yet.” That was beautifully put. I felt evolution, ascension, transformation and all of that good stuff at once!
        Thirty-three minutes each week would be really great. I can only imagine the depths our conversations would travel through!

  4. This was long, but a nice way to ramble. I recognize the joy and difficulty of keeping right and left brain abilities cooperative and in balance. I’m involved with science romantically too, so I enjoyed your poetic approach to that. I’m still working out that “follow your passion” thing. I mean it’s a nice ideal, but then who will mop the floors? Anyway, I learned so much about the unanticipated satisfaction of performing service by switching from working in motion pictures to health care. So now I’m a scientist who writes for free. I guess you can do both.

    • I was born with rambling fever. Can’t avoid it no matter how hard I try… Thanks for indulging my neurosis and hanging in there. That’s cool.

      Oh yeah, and MIKEY! Good to see you again by the way! I was quite delighted to find your thoughts near my thoughts. Once I have a second to actually create a blogroll, you’ll find yourself in a sticky spot. Sticky meaning stuck for good. You know.

      “Involved with science romantically.” YEAH! That’s what’s up! Yes yes yes. And isn’t it some sort of powerful experience to see the different avenues it takes you with age? Funny, I was pre-med but switched back to pre-nothing (philosophy/bachelor of science — not art) and ended up working in the medical field myself. After touring making music for fun and not profit most of my adult life, of course. We seem to walk parallel trails in the thickets of deep-thinking soul-journeys. When I read where life has taken you, I instantaneously saw the Pythagorean Theorem in my heart, representing the essence of “where you are” …or maybe it more accurately depicts “who” you are…

      (A squared) + (B squared) = (C squared)

    • I always have a sudden impulse to call you Mikey D. I FINALLY FIGURED OUT WHY! πŸ™‚

      “Sweet and sour like a tangerine
      Fresh like a box of Krispy Kremes
      Kenny Rogers’ Gambler is my gambling theme
      Mix Master Mike with the scratch routine Always updated and in the know”
      (Three DJs and a Microphone, Beastie Boys)

      Funny, the tangerine reference and what our subconscious carries around. Pours itself subliminally. Perfect.

      MyKeyDee!! What exactly is it that you do? Medical field-wise. If that doesn’t compromise your beautiful anonymity, of course.

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